Unable to find a partner through marriage hunting! Characteristics of men and women

 Unable to find a partner through marriage hunting! Characteristics of men and women

Regarding difficulties in finding a partner in marriage activities, from a spiritual perspective, certain characteristics exist.

There is the issue that women often seek men with an annual income of 5 million yen or more. According to information found on the internet, the average annual income for a salaryman is about 4.33 million yen.

This is only an average, and it does not mean that everyone earns this amount. Some men earn tens of millions of yen, and some even earn hundreds of millions. The 4.33 million yen figure simply represents an average, and the majority of men earn less than this amount.

If women, in the context of marriage activities, are seeking men with an income of 5 million yen or more, most men have not yet reached this level. Therefore, it is natural that many people experience difficulties in forming a union through marriage activities.

Additionally, among men participating in marriage activities, not all, but many do not necessarily seek women who are gentle or women who are solely focused on money. This can further contribute to situations where couples do not come together, making this a notable characteristic of men and women who struggle to form connections in marriage activities.

Regarding the differences between male and female psychology: men tend to want to focus on others rather than being the focus themselves, while women tend to want to be noticed rather than doing the noticing. Ideally, these opposing tendencies attract each other like magnets, making it easier for different genders to connect.

Men, in general, tend to focus on their own hobbies, work, and the visible realities of the world.

Women, on the other hand, tend to be more motivated to enhance their own value in order to be noticed, and thus become more aware of their own inner feelings.

In terms of romance, this often results in women being more attuned to matters of the heart, which may not always be fully understood or appreciated.

Women’s desire to increase their own value is partly about being acknowledged and fulfilled by men who they perceive to have higher value than themselves.

Although there is a growing awareness of gender equality, the desire among women to connect with high-value men remains strong. As long as this mindset persists, high-value men may appear less frequently, making it more likely for men and women to remain unmatched in marriage activities.

Regarding spiritual growth, as discussed repeatedly in this blog, the growth of knowledge comes from each individual realization, and similarly, spiritual growth (the growth of one’s soul) comes from each insight gained from the heart.

When spiritual growth increases, one’s presence strengthens in a meaningful, mental sense, the ability to fulfill others’ hearts through creativity grows, and the broader one’s insights, the wider one’s perspective becomes. This is not a difficult concept—it is simply about becoming mature in a spiritual sense.

Conversely, when spiritual growth is low, one’s presence is weak in a meaningful, mental sense, personal desires often take priority over fulfilling others’ hearts, and limited insight narrows one’s perspective. This, too, is not a difficult concept—it is simply a sign of being spiritually immature.

From a spiritual perspective, “like attracts like.” People with low spiritual growth—men and women who prioritize their own desires over fulfilling others’ hearts—are more likely to experience dissatisfaction and remain unmatched in marriage activities.

From a spiritual viewpoint, those with high spiritual growth tend to develop charisma and presence, which naturally makes them more attractive and increases the likelihood of forming a successful marriage.

From a spiritual perspective, raising children requires a certain level of spiritual maturity. Therefore, immaturity in spiritual growth may be a reason why some remain unmatched in marriage activities.