Considering whether you chose the wrong marriage partner! Spiritual

 Considering whether you chose the wrong marriage partner! Spiritual

Reflections on “Marrying the Wrong Partner”! From a spiritual perspective, some people may feel after marriage that they “married the wrong person.”

From a spiritual viewpoint, this feeling of having chosen the wrong partner is not entirely unfounded, and it may even be becoming more common.

This is not an absolute truth, but rather a general observation: there are differences in how people perceive marriage.

Women tend to place considerable importance on aspects like the wedding dress and often view “getting married” itself as the ultimate goal. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to see marriage as the beginning of a new phase, rather than the end goal.

Differences in these values and expectations regarding marriage can lead to feelings of having “married the wrong person.”

Additionally, there is a high possibility that both partners do not fully understand the psychological differences between the sexes, which can also contribute to the feeling of having “married the wrong person.”

First, consider the basic differences in male and female psychology. Men tend to want to be aware of others rather than to be the focus of attention, whereas women tend to want to be noticed more than to notice others. Ideally, these opposing tendencies naturally attract each other like magnets, making it more likely for different types of partners to come together.

Men generally focus more on their own hobbies and work while also paying attention to women, tending to concentrate on the “visible, tangible world.”

Women, on the other hand, often feel a stronger desire than men to enhance their own “value” in order to be noticed, and their awareness tends to be directed more toward the “heart” of themselves—the emotional aspect of relationships. This is particularly true in romance, where attention is naturally directed toward women, and it is something that can be understood and acknowledged.

Before marriage, in the context of romance, men would have been attentive to women, satisfying their emotional needs.

After marriage, however, men may feel that they can always pay attention to their partner whenever they like, so their focus may shift more toward their own hobbies and interests. From the woman’s perspective, the man’s responses may no longer match what they experienced during dating, leading to dissatisfaction. Spiritually speaking, this can manifest as the sense of having “married the wrong person.”

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The topic of “marrying the wrong person” can also be viewed from the perspective of spiritual growth and “spiritual rank.”

As discussed repeatedly in this blog, the growth of the soul is built from each individual “insight” that contributes to knowledge, and similarly, the growth of the heart—one’s spiritual rank—comes from each individual “insight” of the heart.

When one’s spiritual rank is high, their presence and influence increase in a meaningful way, their capacity to fulfill the hearts of others grows, and the more insights they have, the wider their perspective becomes. This is not a difficult concept; it is essentially about becoming spiritually mature.

Conversely, a low spiritual rank means weaker presence and influence in a spiritual sense, a tendency to prioritize satisfying one’s own heart over fulfilling others’ hearts, and a narrower perspective due to fewer insights. In simple terms, this is spiritually akin to being a “child.”

While not absolute, men often tend to be less aware of the heart, making it more likely for men with low spiritual rank to appear.

Such men may be the type who feel they “married the wrong person,” prioritizing satisfying their own heart over fulfilling their partner’s.

Fundamentally, if a person’s spiritual rank is high and their heart is fulfilled, feelings of “marrying the wrong person” are unlikely to arise at all.

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The topic of “marrying the wrong person” may also be increasingly influenced by feminine-dominant energy from a spiritual perspective.

In spirituality, it is said that the overall energy of the Earth is gradually shifting from male-dominant energy to female-dominant energy.

This is not a sudden, black-and-white switch; rather, it is a gradual change, like the relationship between the sun and the moon.

Female-dominant energy is still in its early stages, and the mental energy of young women can easily show opposing emotions such as joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure. This can manifest in society as polarization, contradictions, and sudden reversals of decisions.

Men tend to “restrain and control” their mental energy, making their mind and body more rigid, while women tend to “release and control” their mental energy, making their mind and body more flexible.

Change occurs more easily in flexibility than rigidity, and we are entering an era of rapid change driven by female-dominant energy.

As a result of these transformations, more people may feel that they “married the wrong person.”

As mentioned earlier, men generally tend to be less aware of the heart. With male-dominant energy weakening, men may appear less like the ideal “prince” and more self-centered, which can contribute to the feeling of having “married the wrong person.”