Human relationships! Not going well! Increasing?

 Human relationships! Not going well! Increasing?

Regarding the topic of human relationships—why they don’t go well and whether such difficulties are increasing—from a spiritual perspective, it may be that this tendency is becoming more apparent.

Several causes can be identified for this.

Currently, with the rise in crimes against children, contact between adults and children has likely decreased. If society instills a sense of danger from childhood, it is natural that, as adults, people become more cautious and less proactive in their communication.

Effective communication requires the development of the necessary neural pathways. If these pathways are not well developed, it is only natural that difficulties in human relationships increase.

Additionally, successful communication requires access to certain information. If a person lacks the necessary information, challenges in forming and maintaining human relationships are more likely to arise.

This is due to the diversity of values, which also causes a dispersion of values. When values do not align, difficulties in human relationships are more likely to arise.

Regarding the growth of the soul, as discussed many times on this blog, the growth of knowledge is composed of individual realizations, and similarly, the growth of the heart—spiritual development—is composed of one realization after another.

When spiritual development is high, one’s existential presence increases in a mental sense, the ability to fulfill the hearts of others and create also rises, and the broader awareness gained from many realizations expands one’s perspective. This is not a complicated idea; in a spiritual sense, it reflects maturity.

Conversely, low spiritual development means a weaker existential presence in a mental sense, a tendency to prioritize fulfilling one’s own heart over the hearts of others, and a narrower perspective due to fewer realizations. This, too, is not complicated—it reflects spiritual immaturity.

High spiritual development tends to manifest in proactive feelings, while low spiritual development tends to appear as passive feelings.

When two people with low spiritual development interact, their ability to fulfill each other’s hearts is weak, communication is difficult, and they are more likely to experience failures in human relationships.

From a spiritual perspective, it is said that the overall energy quality of the Earth is gradually shifting from male-dominant energy to female-dominant energy.

This shift is not sudden, like flipping a switch; it is gradual, like the relationship between the sun and the moon, and it influences the Earth universally, regardless of gender.

Female-dominant energy is still in its early stages. The immature energy of women’s hearts makes opposing energies, such as joy, anger, sorrow, and pleasure, more likely to manifest, which can appear in society as polarization, contradictions, sudden policy changes, or waves of fluctuation.

Men tend to suppress and control their mental energy, making their mind and body more rigid, whereas women tend to release and control mental energy outward, making their mind and body more flexible.

Change occurs more easily in flexibility than rigidity, and the era marks the beginning of a period of rapid change under female-dominant energy.

Male-dominant energy tends to value visible material things, while female-dominant energy tends to value the invisible aspects of the heart.

From a spiritual perspective, this is one way of understanding the phenomenon.

When people experience pain, their awareness naturally focuses on it. Similarly, difficulties in human relationships attract attention, prompting investigation and learning about interpersonal dynamics. As a result, some individuals may develop a strong aptitude for understanding and navigating human relationships.